Divorce Ceremony

Divorce Ceremony

Divorce Ceremony

We often have many beautiful and elaborate rituals for tying the knot, but when it comes it untying the knot, we are left on our own. It need not be that way… A divorce is as significant a threshold as a wedding, and giving yourself a divorce ceremony can feel incredibly healing and liberating.

A divorce ceremony can be created in many ways: this can be a ceremony for the both of you, where you consciously dissolve your marriage. Or, this can be for just you, without the participation of your former partner. Divorce ceremonies can be celebratory and uplifting, with your community present where you dissolve your old vows, and perhaps make a new pledge to yourself. Divorce ceremonies can be quieter, more supportive, where we create a ritual space for you to process grief and sadness, as you begin to let go of your relationship. There is no right way to do this ceremony — what is most important is that you honor yourself and the transition.

To create a divorce ceremony, we go through an extensive interview process, so that I can learn about your journey, both the good and the bad. Using all the information gleaned from our conversations, I create a ceremony that is supportive, healing and reflective of what you need most in that moment. Please contact me if you would like to discuss divorce ceremonies in greater detail.